Acceptance : The only way to walk through everything

 

Have you ever blamed others or anything that happened to you? It's impossible to say that you never did it. We're just human beings, weak, full of complaints, and easily give up. Have we ever felt grateful for what we've been through? Nope, only when it is favorable? But if it is not, we will complain a lot and keep on blaming destiny (qadr). Have we forgotten that life is a test itself? Yes, life is a test. 

The world and our life is not cruel toward us. Don't keep on blaming what has been destined towards us. If we do so, means that we put the blame on Him. Have we forgotten that everything happened because He wants us to go back to Him, ask for His guidance, help, and depend on Him unfortunately, we always forget about this. We keep busying ourselves with the test that He gave us until we forget that everything happens with Allah's will. 

We as a sinner, are we deserve to seek His help and guidance? This question sometimes makes us 'shy' to ask for Him. And that's why He tests us, for us to ask for His forgiveness and guidance. Still not too late to make a way back to Him. Allah swt is always with us, only we as His servant have always forgotten that fact. 

We always stress out when we've been tested by Him. We couldn't accept the destiny that had been written and keep blaming destiny. That perception is wrong. Acceptance might be hard depending on what we've been through but keep in mind that He will never test His servant out of their ability. If He takes one thing from us, He will replace it with a better thing. 

Acceptance will make your life better and calm when facing anything. We cannot fight destiny, we didn't have the power to do so. Just keep in mind that everything happens because He loves us and He will reward us with a better future. If we keep that in mind always and accept everything with open arms and hearts, we will find that our life is smooth and meaningful. Bear in mind, our test is the smallest compared to our prophets and Allah swt knows what is best for us. 

Keep calm, patience, and always remember and depend on Him. He is always there for us.